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Contextual Leadership: New Roles and Options for Leading

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Contextual Leadership: New Roles and Options for Leading

By Susan Letterman White

The ability to lead change projects and influence individuals to change their behavior or follow a particular leader has never been more important than it is today. The world in which every organization operates has become increasingly volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous. We live in a VUCA world. The term may have been coined by the US Army War College in 1987, but the need to adapt to this situation has never been more applicable than now.

Leadership development has focused on the leader with little thought about the variety of people the leader needs to engage or the context in which the leader must operate. Further, most models of leadership development assume that the leader will use power from the exercise of formal authority and expertise to lead willing followers. This is an outdated perspective for law firms and law departments in a world, whose future is uncertain and unclear, whose context is volatile and complex, and where formal authority and expertise aren’t as powerful as they once were.

Further, not all people are similarly motivated. Some are motivated by a desire to belong, others by a desire for power, and still others for a sense of achievement. The role of today’s leader is to know what motivates their people as individuals and how context influences their motivation and be able to influence behavior by adjusting context and selecting the right leadership style for the situation.

Today’s environmental context is rife with unpredictability and complexity, starting with the people a leader is tasked with leading. Many of the older leadership theories are based on a limited conceptual view of leaders and followers and a limited skill set related to directly influencing behavior through the leader’s ability to persuade or engage followers using the trust and/or fear that used to attach to formal authority and expertise. Today’s reality demands an expanded view of people - leaders and others. Others include quiet followers, vocal supporters, bystanders, outsiders, vocal obstructionists, silent obstructionists, hidden connectors for the flow of information, and hidden influencers of desired changes. Consequently, leadership today will be more effective when the leader identifies the hidden connectors and influencers through the use of social network analysis.

Complexity is also present in the organization’s internal contextual elements, its: (1) people; (2) resources, such as technology, available cash, and time; (3) structures that connect, group, and otherwise organize people for a particular purpose and connect with to power; (4) processes - how people execute the various tasks that must be accomplished to make an organization do whatever needs to be done to effectuate its purpose for existing; and (5) socially constructed narratives about values, identity, vision, and goals. The external context is the world in which the organization or group operates, from the macro forces, like politics and economics to the micro forces, like a single client or new technology.

Leading is a process of collecting and analyzing data about context and then creating the right internal context. For example, a leader, who intends to create leadership bench strength, will evaluate every structure, process, resource allocation, and socially constructive narrative for their effects or potential effects on what is needed to create leadership bench strength. For example, do organizational structures bring high potential leaders and high performing leaders together? Are high performing leaders engaged in modeling, mentoring, and sponsoring processes? If not, the leadership question is: Which structures and processes must change and how?

Contextual leaders are successful by including the right people, at the right time, in making and implementing the right decisions to adjust aspects of the organizational context and create the changes that define effective, resilient, and high-performance organizations. Rare is the leader with sufficient charisma to persuade or power to force into existence the context required for any high performing organization. Instead, contextual leaders begin with a vision and specific objectives. Then the focus shifts to adjusting elements of the context to encourage the right behaviors to emerge.

Context adjustment requires preparation, planning, and implementation of actions to create the desired changes. There are four steps to preparation: (1) define the problem to be solved; (2) describe the desired outcome; (3) collect data about the contextual elements that maintain the status quo; and (4) analyze the data to better understand what is maintaining the status quo and which contextual elements to change. Superimposed on the entire process is the participation of the right people at the right time.

The right people: (1) have data about the status quo; (2) are able to analyze and attach meaning to the data; (3) have the power to close the gap between the present and desired outcome or block efforts to do so; and (4) will be affected by or participate in the context changes. Including the right people builds collaboration, trust, and energy. It also overcomes multiple types of resistance to change, creates inclusion, and builds organizational cohesion.

Getting the right people involved is a function of the leaders’ network and influence ability. A good leader is always building their network of supporters, so that when help is needed, the right people with the right power are willing and able to help. What’s most important is to identify the people who are strongly in favor and will help drive the change forward; those who are neutral and won’t help or interfere; and those who are opposed and will use their influence and efforts to oppose the change. A significant force of resistance will come from people who are opposed and have the power to block your efforts. You must have a plan to overcome this type of obstacle by influencing them to take a more neutral position or removing them, if that is not possible. Additionally, the people strongly in favor and with the ability and willingness to help, your allies, need to know how they can help. Is it to influence someone who is neutral to change their perspective and actively help? Is it to use their formal power to make something happen?

Contextual Leadership is leading this multifaceted change process with a set of skills that affects how the leader thinks, feels, and behaves. Consider the difficulty in getting people to use a new CRM system, the benefit of which, to improve client relations management, is broadcast in the name. Rational argument does not persuade anyone to spend time and effort learning a new technology when the personal benefits are difficult to imagine and the costs much more obvious. Instead, including these people as participants in a collaborative preparation, planning, and implementation process to identify the contextual elements to change and how and when to change them, influences people to learn about and use the new technology.

Contextual leaders are only as effective as their foundation of knowledge in three core areas: organization dynamics that cause the persistence of the status quo; systemic and individual change dynamics; and self-awareness and use of self as an instrument of change. The associated skills fall into four categories as shown in the table below.

 
 

This set of skills is best developed through a combination of formal training, action learning (on-the-job learning or learning-by-doing combined with reflection) and coaching. Incorporating Contextual Leadership into your organization builds a foundation for success in all types of change projects.

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Coaching versus Advice

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Coaching versus Advice

By Susan Letterman White

When a colleague or employee comes to us with a problem, our first instinct, the one we were taught as children by our parents, is to offer advice. “Let me tell you what I would do, if I were in your position.” Yet, positions are not automatically interchangeable.  People are complex. The situations in which a person’s problem arises is complex.  There is a lot of unknown and unpredictability baked into the situation and people involved. As a matter of truth, our belief about advice – that we can put ourselves into the position of someone else – is false.  We cannot. The very foundation on which advice is often based, is unsound.

Advice is also the problem-solving method in relationships of dependence.  When we ask or give advice, we perpetuate the relationship and roles of expert and dependent. Our colleagues and employees are the dependents. In a world where complexity, unknowns, volatile change, and ambiguous facts are the rule, we need our colleagues and employees to be empowered, not dependent. We need them to be able to act and adjust their actions as a process of learning and empowerment so as to strengthen our collective ability to survive and thrive in today’s world.

Your organization needs a culture of resilience and learning to be able to adapt and adjust to today’s complex world. You need a coaching culture first and an advice culture second. You need your colleagues and employees to solve their own problems, thinking critically and creatively as they make decisions, and learn to make increasingly complex decisions while being productive and innovative. This set of needs represents significant changes in behaviors, thought patterns, and emotional intelligence to guide how we feel and use our feelings strategically. 

Integrating coaching into your management and leadership techniques is a means to help your colleagues and employees change their behavior. Instead of trying to be the expert and provide perfect advice, be curious and driven by a desire to learn more about a problem situation and the person with the capacity to address that problem. Instead of advice, ask questions to promote your colleague or employee’s thought process and decision-making skills. These questions should focus on capacity building to think more broadly and holistically about a situation. What do we know about the situation and problem? What do we know about the people involved? What are possible solutions to try? What are the advantages and disadvantages of each? How can we prioritize risks and benefits? When can we learn from taking a risk and failing without causing an existential threat?

Are you operating in an advice culture or a coaching culture?

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ERG's to CERG's

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ERG's to CERG's

By Susan Letterman White

Employee Resources Groups (ERGs) historically have been an effective tool for developing workplace inclusion. They are a structure or grouping of people who are exposed to each other, form relationships, and share information and experiences. Organizations that want to be known as places where everyone has a fair chance to succeed and as having a positive reputation with regard to diversity, equity, and inclusion discovered the invaluable nature of networks of voluntary, employee-organized communities that foster connections between employees that share similar interests, characteristics, or backgrounds. Most commonly, employees of similar ethnicities, gender identities, or sexual orientations form employee resource groups to give them a safe space to discuss their experiences at work. They build psychological safety and give a collective voice to individuals that share a sense of marginalization or a voice that has been underrepresented in workplace narratives.

What if we reimagined the possibilities of ERGs? Would it be possible to structure them in a way that expertise and power are also exchanged across differences in addition to information and experiences as relationships are formed? We think of ERGs as groups of people with significant commonalities.  What if we thought about how to bring together people who have more differences than things in common? Could the right differences create the context where the relationships lead to an exchange of expertise for valuable opportunities?

I have two examples to offer, which I call Community + Employee Resource Groups (CERGs). They can serve as models for future design: the Boston gym, Inner City Weightlifting and the New York City research collaboration with local universities, Town + Gown. Each of these is attractive to a diverse group of people with different skills and needs. They are win-win for the people involved and an additional “win” for the larger community. They build valuable relationships across differences, the necessary ingredient for creating more diversity at higher levels of power and leadership in the workplace and community in which that workplace exists.

The Boston gym Inner City Weightlifting (ICW) pairs trainers from lower-SES backgrounds with more affluent clients. The trainers have the expertise and this flips the power dynamics, otherwise based on SES and creates a genuine form of inclusion. Trainers get access to new networks and opportunities and clients gain new insights into complex social problems, like inequitable incarceration in addition to weight training expertise. 

New York City’s Town+Gown is a systemic action research program that focuses on the Built Environment. The program engages students interested in local urban planning in research questions of importance to various city agencies involved in construction and development projects. It is a public-private partnership among entrepreneurs, city agencies and the academic community. The City gets exposure to talented students and researchers in local universities and students get exposure to the City workforce. Universities are one area that often focus on building internal student body diversity, making them a good source of City exposure to a pool of talented people across a variety of differences. Cities and state governments with easy access to local universities and an interest in building a diverse leadership pipeline should consider launching a Town +Gown program. The added benefit is that the design of the program is to come up with innovative solutions to important problems.

The benefits of CERGs make sense and are aligned with the data recently published in two research papers on increasing economic mobility of low socioeconomic status (SES) people through exposure to high SES people. The key message is that in a context that both exposes people to others who are socially diverse and encourages the development of true friendships, it is possible to create the exchange of valuable benefits that include the extension of a valuable opportunity by a person who has access to that value.

Social economic status (SES) is the relative position and power a person has in a society based on a combination of their social and economic position, access to resources, and work experience. Many studies have shown that if you are connected to people who are more educated or affluent you are more likely to be the beneficiary of valuable information, mentoring, and job prospects. It can also shape your aspirations. Additionally, there are many studies that have shown how a person’s social networks influence their adherence to social norms. These two recent papers show that it is not exposure between these two SES groups is not enough. The context in which the exposure takes place makes a difference. The context must be one where friendships are forged. The paper introduces the concept of “friending bias,” defined as “the tendency for people with low SES to befriend people with high SES at lower rates even conditional on exposure.”

Policies and processes shape contexts.  For example, smaller groups are more likely to encourage friendships. Contexts where the power dynamics are flipped is another. The Boston gym Inner City Weightlifting (ICW) pairs trainers from lower-SES backgrounds with more affluent clients. The trainers have the expertise and this flips the power dynamics, otherwise based on SES and creates a genuine form of inclusion. Trainers get access to new networks and opportunities and clients gain new insights into complex social problems, like inequitable incarceration in addition to weight training expertise. Peer mentoring programs, like this, that flip the delivery of expertise will empower as the expert the otherwise socially marginalized and underrepresented group and make dependent the otherwise socially empowered group. This re-equilibration opens the door for a real friendship to happen and for the sharing of valuable opportunities for subsequent SES change possible.

Our natural tendencies for developing friendships and the flip side, the friending bias, can be reduced if we understand how to create the right context so that exposure across differences gets the right conditions to make a difference. It comes as no surprise that friends are often those who cross paths with regularity, such as coworkers, classmates, and people we run into at the gym. That’s the exposure piece of the equation. Social identity, it seems, is also part of the equation. Apparently, we like people who support our current view of ourselves.

Communication facilitates the first two essential behaviors: self-disclosure and supportiveness, both necessary for intimacy. We must be willing to extend ourselves, to share our lives with our friends, to keep them abreast of what's going on with us. Likewise, we need to listen to them and offer support.


What makes a friendship https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200611/friendship-the-laws-attraction

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Why Conflict is Good

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Why Conflict is Good

By Susan Letterman White

Conflict is a natural consequence of differences. People have differences in what they notice and miss in their world view, how they make sense of what they notice based on their experiences in life and what they want for the future, how they express their ideas, and their emotional reactions to different situations. These differences are what help groups see new avenues for achieving shared goals or to re-conceptualize what they want for the group and themselves individually. Conflict, when re-conceptualized as a challenge, signals opportunities. The benefit comes from the pause leading to deeper thinking, creativity, and understanding of differences that lead to different and options for resolving the challenge.

Unresolved conflict, however, can have disastrous consequences for a group that otherwise has the potential for unstoppable success. It can frustrate, anger and cloud perception, become verbally or physically violent, reduce morale, increase stress, and decrease productivity. The energy around conflict can lead to creative solutions or like a pot of boiling water can either explode over the sides or dry up and ruin the pot. Why does some conflict result in innovation, while others just ruin the “pot?”

It seems there are two types of conflict: relationship conflict, which is personal and emotional and task conflict, which is about ideas and opinions. It also seems, based on research Adam Grant discusses in his book, Think Again, teams that perform poorly start with more relationship conflict than task conflict.

Conflict is inevitable in a healthy workplace. The Thomas-Kilmann model explains five possible approaches to ending conflict. These approaches stem from how that person experiences conflict and their initial reaction. They might try to avoid it, accommodate the other party involved with them in a conflict, find a compromise to end the conflict, collaborate with the other party to find a sustainable solution, or compete to win. Superimposed over a default tendency a person has for approaching conflict is that person’s natural tendencies in communication.  The Social Style model explains four possible communication style preferences that may appear more or less: (1) analytical, (2) focused on resolution and action, (3) supportive of others, or (4) enthusiastic and imaginative. So, although conflict is healthy, productive managing the energy around conflict is a high-level leadership skill that is not taught in traditional academic programs. Too often the conflict in a discussion is not about the ideas, but about the tension created because ideas are communicated in ways that trigger a strong emotional reaction when received. 

Productive conflict happens in a group of people, who trust each other to point out blind spots, are humble about their personal expertise, and push each other to be curious about new perspectives. They, fearlessly or with courage, question the status quo and demand re-thinking as a group. This happens only when the relationship bonds are strong and individual goals are to elevate the work of the group and not simply give and receive ego-building praise.

So, this means to harness the “good” in conflict, the group must reduce relationship conflict and learn how to manage task conflict productively. Reduce relationship conflict by strengthening or eliminating relationships that are fraught with personal animus. They are destructive to the important work of the group. Improve the individual emotional intelligence of group members. Emotional intelligence begins with developing an awareness of one’s emotions in the moment and learning to quell strong emotions when they interfere with productive conflict.

Reduce task conflict by reframing the conflict as a challenge that is collectively shared. Introduce discussion norms to make explicit the emotional triggers resulting from how ideas are communicated and how to reduce destructive emotional energy, while preserving productive emotional energy.  There are six principles of productive communication:

  1. Communicate purposefully 

  1. Listen to understand 

  2. Suspend judgment 

  3. Identify interests 

  4. Brainstorm options 

  5. Design solutions 

1. Communicating purposefully means that you have a clear intention of how you want your communication to affect another person. Questions to ask yourself before you communicate include: 

  • What is your purpose? 

  • What are the messages you want to send? 

  • To whom is each message directed? 

  • How can you best convey your message? 

2. Listen to understand means that you listen to another person without planning your response. After carefully listening to understand the person’s interests, you ask questions to check whether or not your perception of the communication is what the person intended to communicate to you. Statements to seek understanding are open ended questions or requests for elaboration and begin with: 

  • Let me see if I understand, you said… 

  • Did you mean… 

  • Tell me more about… 

3. Suspend judgment means that you are curious to discover what information and assumptions are behind a person’s statements. You refrain from stating your position  and arguing and instead you state your interests. You wonder why something communicated is important to the person communicating. Questions to show curiosity and suspend judgment are: 

  • Why is that important? 

  • Why is that a concern? 

  • Why does that matter? 

  • What leads you to that conclusion? 

4. Identifying interests means identifying goals, wants, needs, expectations, concerns, and hopes. To do that:

  • Disclose your interests.

  • Listen for and acknowledge the interests of others. 

  • Clarify your understanding of others’ interests. 

  • Look for and identify shared interests. 

5. After everyone has had an opportunity to identify their interests and understands the interests of others, the group can brainstorm options to satisfy as many interests as possible. It is not the time to evaluate the options. It is the time to generate as many options as possible. Look for and identify shared options. 

6. Designing solutions means jointly discussing the options and how each satisfies interests. It is the time for evaluating solutions. Look for fairness, reasonableness, and the ability to implement the solutions. Do you need to add in time management or accountability processes for ideal solution implementation?

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